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Baby: yeah she’s pretty distraught 2.Scary: well that’s probably a bit fairer to everybody else as well. Ginger: and the other family members too. Is that what you mean? Like the other family members would still have them too like its just not for us … Posh: don’t you mean its only one of our grandpas? Scary: yeah || 1 2 || 2. Ginger: "I'd always take the live things. Just personally but..." || 1 2 || 2. Baby: yeah i wouldn't, if i had a dog i wouldn't leave it (regarding groups view that the dog should not be left behind) || 2 2 || 2. Posh: "So are you happy to have the dogs, the cats, the documents and the photo albums. That's fine?" Scary: "Yep yep I mean that's a good, that's a good..." Posh: "so now we're ujust working out the order. Is that what we're doing?" Scary: "yep" || 1 2 || 2. Sporty: all right so the maybes are: ten photo albums um yep, the cat and the five kittens, the only manuscript left of that book that was written was that almost finished or something? || 1 2 || 2. 2 ||  ||   || 2. Posh: Ginger can’t decide what she wants to do! || 2 2 || //Posh//: I would take the dog over the money. //Sporty//: I would personally but I suppose it depends on your economic situation as well. Five thousand dollars is a lot to some people. But it is a life... //Posh:// I guess it is a stray dog like you’ve gotta think like... //Ginger:// yeah and... //Posh:// and you’ve only had it ten months, like do you know what I mean //Sporty:// yeah like you haven’t grown an attachment //Posh:// yeah it’d be right //Ginger:// yeah I think the dog will be ok //Posh//: but we kind of seem like meanies being like yeah we want the money over the dog. //Ginger//: yeah I know! //Scary//: yeah but um oh I’ve forgotten what I was going to say yeah but wouldn’t you have formed an attachment within those ten months though? Like it would be like more like survival smart because it has been a stray but I think it depends on just how attached we are to it. //Posh//: why don’t you just like throw the ashes? Like as you go? Like into the water? And keep something else 2. (Group mumbles, agrees) 1 ||
 * **Skill** || **Qoute** || **Discussion #** ||
 * Active Listening || 1.Posh: she’s distraught and then she’s confused
 * Respectful Diagreeing || 1. Posh: "Like I like that list... But I still don't know about Tim!"
 * I-Messages || 1. Baby: I'd take the kittens just because the kittens are'g going to be able to survive and we could probably find another way to get the documents (regarding groups view that the kittens should got before the documents)
 * Positive Tracking || 1. "Yeah, like we've got so far we've got Tim, as number one, Debbie as number two, Greg as three and then the other two that don't care, OR, now it's a toss up between whether Greg should be three OR put down to number give, because he was just like whatever I hate you now, but the other two were just like listen it's none of our business".
 * Summarising/looking for agreement || 1.** Scary: ** so is everyone all alright, all good with the order “Tim, Debbie, George, Ann, Greg, Andrew.”
 * Suggesting & persuading || 1.
 * Posh:** But they elderly people they were like kind of nothing, like they’re not really low and they’re not really high like they just didn’t… they didn’t care but… was it like… it’s none of their business really, for them to go up to them and be like hey, like who was she to them, like really (group laughs)
 * Ginger**: well nah I was just going to say thinking about it now I would sort of be inclined to put the documents second the dog third because the dog well as we said before could probably survive, but I know in real life I wouldn’t do that so there’s probably no point in that. || 1
 * Including Others || 1. Posh (to scary): all right, so you reckon the pets first?
 * Negotiation || 1.
 * Posh:** Yeah I’d find it really hard, like on the moral list, ‘cos Andrew’s down the bottom because he’s awful because he was just doing it for himself and then… Tim I’d put pretty bad because he didn’t go after his friend and be like look, you need to talk to her (group agrees), he just like said nah I’m gonna keep… I’m gonna stick with you Debbie (**Ginger:**Yeah) (group mumbles) and he probably touched her butt
 * Ginger:** And he didn’t ask the friend like either like oh is it ok if I take Debbie
 * Posh:** Mmm
 * Ginger:** But then again he is taking care of her so I’d put him like not at the bottom
 * Posh:** Like in the middle
 * Scary:** I reckon I’d probably him higher because like, he’s the more compassionate one and just like understood, her situation more than…
 * Baby:** I’d put him, yeah, I wouldn’t put him top or anything (**Scary:** no) but I’d put him about three or four… I think || 2